Dedicated to helping men survive divorce - (Mentally & Financially)
You matter & you're not alone!


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Welcome to "Men-In-Divorce". This site is dedicated to you and your family. Preserving you as a man and helping you survive the divorce as well as the divorce process, is my goal. (I've been there twice, so I know. Hopefully you'll benefit from the Guide and perhaps, learn from and not repeat my mistakes)


  • Men really need help when they are anticipating divorce or have been informed that they're about to go through one.

  • Men need to know, (long before they go to court), that the treatment they receive by the courts, compared to women, is very lop-sided. They also need to know how to level the "Scales of Justice" to a degree they can survive with.

  • Men need help in staying focused on the children & their well-being. Men also need to know how very crucial they are to the "health" of the family, how important it is for them to stick around & also how to stay in the picture, now and later on. (This is contrary to the notion that men aren't necessary to raising children, as many "people" tend to espouse).


Here are two very positive ways I can help you survive as you move through the divorce process and also a way for you to help others through their most difficult period.

1.  Read my Guide - "Men Get To Leave" and learn how to survive the divorce. (Take a few minutes and review the section summaries. You'll see the way things are, could be, the "how-to(s)" & "not-to(s)", and finally, what I did -(right & wrong) (Hey-if you learn and use just one of my ideas from the Guide-both you & I will be winners)
2. E-Mail me if you are struggling with specific issues of your divorce. Sometimes, just writing about something can help clear the air.  Get is off your chest.  Click on Can We Talk?
(Hey-between the Guide, me and the links to other related sites, you're sure to get relief)
3. I constantly strive to make this site more meaningful to men seeking help. I invite you to share your ideas with me. Your ideas could possibly be included in a future release of the Guide, (with your permission, of course.) Click on Share Ideas